The search for pleasure is one of the main objectives of human beings, and sexual pleasure is no exception. In fact, sexual satisfaction is very much related to the well-being of the couple, as we commented in our article “Does having lots of sex make couples happier?
However, over the years, monotony and decreased dedication to a partner’s sexual needs can cause satisfaction to suffer.
How to correctly masturbate a woman
Masturbation is a good alternative to increase sexual pleasure in intimate relationships and has its advantages and benefits.
And since some men may wonder how to masturbate a woman correctly, in this article we have prepared a list of 19 steps to answer this question . They are as follows.
1. Locate the clitoris
Despite having different sex organs, both men and women can have really pleasant orgasms. However, while the penis has only one way of transporting sensations to the brain, the female genital system has three or four. Without a doubt, the best known is the clitoris : a small, fleshy body found at the highest part of the vulva.
Stimulating the clitoris correctly can lead women to experience extremely pleasant sensations. However, it is necessary to know how to do it, and not to stimulate directly if there is not enough excitement.
2. And point G
Much is said about the G-spot, and surely everyone knows that this is the magic woman’s button . The G-spot is still the inner part of the clitoris as the research points out, so it is an area that we must stimulate if we want to masturbate a woman correctly.
To locate it, it is necessary to insert the finger with the nail face down and, once inside, lift the tip so that the finger is in the form of a hook. Then, you will detect a protruding area inside, a kind of button.
3. Stimulate both at the same time
To increase the pleasurable sensations, it is possible to play with both hands (or even with just one) to stimulate both the external clitoris and the G-spot. Sensations to the limit if you can perform a combined movement.
4. Don’t just focus on the clitoris
However, there are other erogenous zones in the vagina, so you can experience what sensations touching them produces. Surely the person you are having intimate relations with can give you feedback on what they like .
5. Explore the body
To produce a more pleasant stimulation, it is important to know that there are other erogenous zones that can be stimulated. For example, while stimulating the clitoris, the neck can be a great ally to increase the sensations . Also stimulate the anal area. It is important to think of the body as a whole, because it is a great treasure in its entirety.
6. Uses lubricant
When masturbating a woman, it is ideal to use some lubricant, thus increasing pleasure and avoiding pain . Fifty percent of a recent survey said that lubrication helped them achieve orgasm,
7. Invest in a sex toy
Masturbation does not only include the fingers, but it is possible to perform it with other objects, for example, with vibrators . There are many on the market, so you can investigate before deciding on one.
8. Or maybe two
One sex toy can be a good alternative, but two is even better. Don’t cut yourself and use them at the same time . Orgasm can be even more pleasurable.
9. Play with the environment
The place where you carry out masturbation can also be decisive in promoting a climate of trust and relaxation. Perhaps you can decorate the room with candles and induce relaxation with music that invites you to let yourself go.
10. Know the other person
Take time to get to know the other person, because not everyone has the same tastes.
11. Maintain communication
So you can ask him directly and maintain a fluid communication . In this way it is possible to improve things and achieve much more intense feelings.
12. Be gentle and increase the intensity progressively
We may think that by giving more intensity we will achieve greater orgasms, but the truth is that increasing the intensity is ideal. In fact, a very useful technique is to delay the climax .
13. Varies in touch and movement
Make circular movements, in a straight line, rubbing, massaging, blowing , in other words, vary the movements and touch on the clitoris and other erogenous zones. This can help create very pleasant sensations.
14. Don’t forget the nipples
The nipples, like the genitals, have many nerve endings that help increase female excitement . However, many men do not know how to take advantage of them, as they are too abrupt. In this erogenous zone, it is important to be gentle.
15. Use your imagination and get lost in the present
These tips can be very useful, but the key is to get lost in the moment , connect with the other person and understand the situation at that moment. So pay attention to what is going on between you and focus on what you are doing.
16. Pueba other places
While I have commented before that it is necessary to create a climate conducive to intimate relationships, one should not only think about the room. It is possible to be creative or look for other places that can stimulate the senses, for example, in the bathtub .
17. Try different games
It is also possible to try different games or positions , or to add stimuli to the sexual game, for example, by adding ice, as the cold can intensify the sensations.
18. Try different positions
Masturbation can also be performed from different positions . Therefore, you don’t have to be closed-minded, and it is possible to attack from different angles.
19. Don’t stop, keep going…
Women can have multiple orgasms , that is, they can have a sequence of orgasms one after the other without having to go through the resolution stage. So, even if you think you’re at a climax, don’t stop and keep going…