Sexual relations are one of the greatest pleasures that we can enjoy. However, not everyone has the same mentality about sex, as there can be very liberal people who like to enjoy their sexuality to the fullest, and people who, due to a series of prejudices, see sex as something prohibitive or that must stick to a script and very rigid roles.
Enjoying sexuality and having an open mind is synonymous with health. In this article we present a series of sex games that you can play with your partner to enjoy one of life’s greatest pleasures.
Benefits of having sex
Because sex is a healthy practice that no one should be deprived of. When we merge our bodies with the person we are most attracted to, the experience leads to ecstasy. But sex is not only positive because of the sensations and pleasure it gives us, but science has shown that it has many benefits :
- Improves the immune system by releasing large amounts of the hormone DHEA.
- It rejuvenates and makes you feel younger.
- Extends life
- Improves fitness and cardiovascular health
- It improves mood by flooding the brain with neurochemicals such as serotonin or endorphins.
- Reduces stress
If you want to know more about these benefits, you can read our article: “The 13 benefits of having sex, according to science”
Social games to keep the flame of passion alive
Experts have been recommending for years that you give an exciting touch to your sexual relations in order to avoid falling into a routine and the relationship being affected . But how is it possible to keep the flame of passion alive? Below you can find a list of sex games to rekindle the passion in your partner:
1. Body painting
Want to try something new and exciting? Why not play at painting each other . You may not be a great artist, but what individual doesn’t want to use the body of their excited partner as a canvas. You can try all kinds of instruments, like thinner and thicker brushes… the important thing is to lose yourself in the sensations, and when the masterpiece is finished, to enjoy it.
2. Chocolate and ice cream
There’s nothing better than combining sweet taste with sex. Come on, the only thing stimulated in this game is not just the palate. To do this, you need both partners to be naked, and then you can start tracing chocolate and ice cream paths all over your body. Then, without using your hands, you should leave no trace of the candy. The flavours and sensations of the cold ice cream and the wet tongue will make this moment magical.
3. The pump
The bomb is a simple game but it will make you explode with pleasure. To do it, you just have to take a watch and decide a time interval in which penetration is not allowed. For example, 20 minutes. Kisses, caresses, bites… everything is possible except penetration. Good things come in handy.
4. The blind man
To play blind, you only have to blindfold your partner, take him where he wants to go and do whatever you want to him . Not being able to see gives free rein to the imagination and can be very exciting.
5. The prisoner
A classic of stimulating sex. The game of the blind leaves the person without the possibility of seeing what is happening, but the prisoner immobilizes, turns him into his slave. For example, by tying him to the bed or to a chair . This feeling can be very provocative. Moreover, if he is blindfolded, the situation is even more erotic.
6. Oily massage
Oily massage is a classic of sex games, but many couples, when they have been together for a while, do not resort to this stimulating technique. Performing it is easy. Simply place one of you in a comfortable, upside down position. The other must perform a sensual massage, but with a lubricating oil. There are many on the market, some even contain very stimulating smells and tastes. The touch, the smell and that sensation that the oil leaves, make that way of having sex different from the conventional one and, of course, more exciting.
7. Naked Twister
This game may bring us back to childhood, but there’s nothing childish about it. Twister is one of the skill games that many generations have enjoyed most. It is a game that requires physical skill as well as motor coordination . In order for it to become a sexual game, both partners must be naked or in their underwear. What happens next is up to you.
8. Naughty papers
This game is simple but can make sexual intercourse very exciting. You simply need to take two jars (one for each partner) and insert a series of small pieces of paper . On the papers of one jar there will be hot verbs, such as licking, sucking, biting, etc.; and on the other one there will be body parts (neck, breasts, etc.). The idea is to get out and enjoy.
9. Guess what my mouth tastes like
This game is a variation of the game of the blind. When one of the two is blindfolded, the other has to put strawberries, ice cream, chocolate, liquor… in his mouth. Then they have to kiss and the blindfolded person has to decide what the other one has in his mouth . If he doesn’t succeed, the other person who had the flavoured mouth has to rub an erotic area with the food and the other person has to lick it gently to give pleasure.
10. Strip poker
Within the foreplay games, strip poker takes the upper hand in table games for couples. The game consists of playing poker and the person who loses must take off his clothes instead of betting money. If you don’t like poker, it is possible to play other card games. The idea is that one of us ends up naked.
This game is not meant to be violent. To play, you both need to undress and hold a cushion. Then, you must start a battle between the two without physical damage . The goal is to make love, not war.
12. Close your eyes and open your mouth
To play this game, one of the two partners must lie down on the bed with their eyes closed (or blindfolded) and their mouths open. The other places different parts of the body in the other person’s mouth (fingers, breasts, genitals…) and the latter licks, sucks, bites or kisses these parts. An exciting game that can cause sexual temperature to rise.
13. Cold or hot
One of the most provocative and enjoyable games. The game consists of performing oral sex but not in the conventional way, but it is necessary to put ice or take a hot drink alternately so that the mouth is impregnated with cold and heat . By performing the act of oral sex the sensations will increase and, consequently, the pleasure.
One of many people’s fantasies is to have sex by pretending to play a role or after dressing up as part of foreplay . As a schoolgirl, as a fireman, as a pirate… any disguise can provoke very stimulating moments full of passion.
15. The flashlight
For this game you need a flashlight. When you are with your partner you have to turn off the light and then use the flashlight to illuminate the parts of the body you want your partner to pay attention to . It is not a matter of hiding shyness, but of stimulating attention and the senses. The flashlight is a guide for your partner to do everything.
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