On what sexual diversity is not and its relationship to psychology

In general terms, psychology deals with the study of human behavior for the understanding of it and its prediction. This can classify it in processes of conditioning and a premise that is well supported by scientific evidence, but without reaching the reductionism , which in any of its fields is not very adequate.

The Concept of Gay Psychology

Psychology is as broad as the complexity of the human being, not to mention sexuality. Here we find sexual diversity, framed in a very varied range full of nuances. Therefore, beyond impositions, either by culture, society and religion especially. Perhaps when we hear about sexual diversity we think vaguely or exclusively of homosexuality , but there are many other aspects involved. As far as homosexuality is concerned, much is said about what we think we know it is, but very little is said about what it is not.

So, what exactly do we mean: gay psychology or psychology related to sexual diversity? Sexual diversity, therefore, contemplates affective and sexual orientation beyond heterosexuality, which is given to us by the parameters constructed by our society according to gender and its direct correspondence. All this, as if it were a dogma, without taking into account its possible variations. Denying any option that opposes heteronormativity.

We find a lack of flexibility that does not take into account components such as the biological one, which becomes feasible along with the environment in the person, but those imposed by man in his opinion. Another point to take into account is affectivity, since we all feel the need to love and be loved, this as far as a couple relationship is concerned. Then the inclination becomes known as the affective-sexual orientation, they can go together or separately, which is expressed by attraction.

Homosexuality, therefore, will be the affective and/or sexual inclination by persons of the same sex, regardless of gender, identity, role and its corresponding expression. Often we can come across the acronym LGBTI (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Intersex). These initials encompass sexual diversity or the so-called sexual minority, which is why it is given a connotation of stigma, but which need not always be so. Interestingly, many accuse the very people who identify themselves as such of being responsible for the blatant rejection of discrimination, but this occurs because of the misconception of the environment .

The labels give a name and classify , although they do not define the person as a whole, instead they make them visible. Being the testimony, the labels, that we are different but with equal rights. There are many aspects to be dealt with in this broad topic and its direct relationship with psychology lies in understanding the person in his or her individuality. To realize how it is built, developed and made aware of who it is. Offering support and help. Because we all have the right to be how we feel, even if what has been imposed on us by different conventions contradicts it.

Psychology, then, opens a field of possibilities available to all to understand and be understood, this improves the quality of life and welfare. At some point we can act, think, feel and speak in a way that expresses homophobia or rejection of the different “options” or variants of sexuality that are not, precisely, heterosexual, since we have grown up in environments where in some way it is implicitly encouraged, but it is up to each person to be aware of whether or not it is the right thing to do. Above all, we are people worthy of respect, however we are or how we define ourselves. It is good that we cannot demand that everyone “understands”, but more than tolerance we should offer respect for the different ways of being and feeling regarding sexuality and affectivity.