Social networks for flirting are in fashion .

More and more often, applications are released that give us the opportunity to meet interesting people and find the love of our life. Tinder is one of these applications, and is probably the one that is having the most success. But how do we manage to generate interest and have a date?

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Seduction 2.0: seven keys to moving from social network chat to bed

Next we’ll give you seven tips to turn your 2.0 dates into 1.0 dates and to be able to go from the screen of the chat to the bar.

1. Be Yourself

If our goal is to come face to face, it is important that we behave in a way that is consistent with who we are. We have to think that, sooner or later, we’ll have to see our contact in person. There is nothing more frustrating than discovering that the person hiding behind the screen was not who they claimed to be . In the next step we tell you how to do this…

2. Have a consistent profile

Let’s choose suitable profile pictures that speak about us. Of course, we have to choose the photos in which we are most favored, but that’s not enough. It is important that the photos speak about us, our work and our hobbies. We should choose pictures in which we are enjoying our lives . For example, if we like to ski, we will choose a picture in which we go out skiing. If we work as a barman, we will choose a photo in which we appear preparing a drink… let’s remember that photos are a great source of information and, moreover, can serve to generate conversations.

Once we have selected the photo, it would be advisable that, if the application allows it, we fill in the profile counting who we are and what we want to do with our life. We will not leave it blank. We will summarize, in a couple of lines, what we are and what we expect from life. This will help the other person to get an idea of what we are like so that they can decide whether they want to give us a chance.

3.The opening sentence

You already have a suitable profile and you’re willing to talk. What do you say? Before you start talking we recommend you look at his profile. There we will have a very important source of information with which you can start chatting. There’s no need to impress anyone; we’ll just be interested in the other person. Little by little, we will get practice and it will be easier for us to generate a conversation out of nothing. We will start with questions that need to be answered in a broad way.

We will not focus on “yes” or “no” questions. We are not taking a survey, we are wanting to meet a flesh and blood person .

4.Don’t be overwhelmed

Let’s not become annoying . Surely our interlocutor has a life to attend to. Let’s give a limited time to our chat sessions and enjoy real life. That will help the other person to wonder about us. For the other person, we need to be a pleasant and appealing moment . Also, it’s important that we save things for the date. This way we will generate expectations and arouse their curiosity.

5.Creates intimacy and trust

It is important that, as we talk, we generate complicity with jokes that only we and our interlocutor can understand. The other person must detect that you have something special . He should feel that you are a respectful person worthy of his trust and we should let him know that we expect the same.

6.Have a motive

If our goal is to meet the other person, we have to have an excuse , even if we are just curious about it. Things have a reason . Communicating it properly will make it more difficult to get a no for an answer.

It is advisable that we have some plan in mind ; something simple with which we can spend time together. Let’s try to meet in a busy place where there are people. Remember that the other person does not know us and does not yet know what we are really like. He may have doubts about our person. We must offer the possibility to check that we are as we have shown ourselves.

7.Do not insist

We’re not an obligation. Our interlocutor has to feel that he wants to meet us of his own free will. If he tells us that he can’t stay, let’s not pursue him; let’s give him a break. One way to avoid becoming obsessed is for us to have more than one person to meet. That way we won’t be so affected by his refusal.

In short: we have to be patient and behave as we are . We have to understand that, behind the screen, there is a real person with feelings and an exciting life to be discovered.

If you want to learn all the keys to seducing via WhatsApp, be sure to read our article “Linking through WhatsApp: 10 Keys to Effective Chatting”.